HELP! I’m Living with a (Man) Boy

By Betty McLellan (2007)

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Overall reception: Mixed reception

HELP! I'm Living with a (Man) Boy by Betty McLellan receives mixed reception online, with an average rating of 3.31/5 on Goodreads based on 16 ratings. The book is described as a feminist psychotherapy guide addressing relationship dynamics where male partners exhibit childish or immature behaviors. While some readers appreciate McLellan's empowering approach that avoids blaming women for relationship problems, others criticize the book for what they perceive as an overly feminist perspective that recommends leaving relationships as the primary solution. The book has been translated into numerous languages including German, Spanish, Greek, Italian, Turkish, Japanese, Polish, and others, suggesting international interest in the topic.

What readers loved

  • Empowers women to take charge of relationships rather than fixing themselves
  • Provides practical scenarios (41 specific situations) that many women immediately identify with
  • Written with humor and a light touch while addressing serious relationship issues
  • Offers concrete suggestions for dealing with immature male behavior patterns
  • Helps women develop assertiveness and emotional independence
  • Accessible and entertaining writing style for a self-help book
  • Addresses serious topics including communication problems, emotional manipulation, and abuse

Common critiques

  • Perceived as written from an overly feminist perspective that some readers find off-putting
  • Criticized for recommending leaving relationships as the primary solution to problems
  • Some readers feel the advice is obvious and could be obtained from friends
  • Described as 'sarcastic' rather than genuinely humorous by some reviewers
  • May not provide sufficient alternatives beyond 'stay and suffer' or 'leave'
Last updated April 28, 2026 Summary based on publicly available reviews. May not reflect every reader's experience.